21 Dec 2013

How to make the most of house guests or visitors

I am lucky enough to have my mother visiting for a month. She is an excellent guest, easy going, accommodating, interested in what we are doing and keen to know her grandchildren in New Zealand more.
Mum and her Grandchildren in NZ
I am very proud of her ability at almost eighty to fly for 28 hours to be with us. She looks marvelous. Her great company is a reminder of what we miss out on, but I relish every moment of being with her.

This is the time of year when many people will have visitors. They may be staying for more than one day. Immigrants with visitors often have family or friends staying for a few weeks at least. It is lovely to have them but those who have or have had visitors will agree there is some merit to the saying, 'Fish and family, out after three days.'

How do you make the most of your house guests?

20 Nov 2013

12 Ways To Overcome Homesickness

The second newsletter is out click here to read it.
It has information on homesickness and suggests 12 ways to overcome it.

Have you ever wondered how to greet people of a different culture? Make sure you get it right. The newsletter shows ways to greet people of different nationalities.



Finally, how many artists can you name (without Googling the answer) on this version of Lou Reed's Perfect Day?


Tell us what you think of the newsletter. Are there any other topics you would like for future newsletters and blogs?

8 Nov 2013

November Newsletter: Homesickness - What you didn't know and what you can do.


Homesickness/Nostalgia was acknowledged in the seventeenth century as such a debilitating disease that soldiers who had it were sent home form the war. Now homesickness is a sign of weakness. Find out more by signing up to the newsletter here.
As another homesick inducing holiday season approaches with Hannukah, Thanksgiving and Christmas, find out what you can do to make it easier.
If that is not enough, find out how to greet people of different cultures without offending. Its in the Newsletter. The November issue coming out 19th November or before.
Finally, one of the greatest piano players of our time sings a tribute to going back home.



1 Nov 2013

Newsletter 2 - Homesickness

Homesickness, some history of it, 12 ways to overcome it, greeting people and hearing Elton John sing Back home again are just some of the items on this newsletter. Click on the link below.
Newsletter 2 November 2013

21 Oct 2013

How To RemoveThe Fear Of Flying With Children. Part 2

Your carry-on luggage survival kit:
  1. Your survival kit for toddlers or children should include boiled sweets, vitamin tablets or something to suck for takeoff and landing to avoid earache. For babies I used to have water or milk in a bottle for them to suck on. It can also include activity bags for the children, fruit and nuts to cover for disorientated meal times.

18 Oct 2013

How To Remove The Fear Of Flying With Children. Part 1

As Christmas approaches some of you will be thinking of making a trip back to your homeland. If you have
children or babies to take with you, this may seem daunting. You can probably already hear the groans of passengers as you and your offspring approach a seat near them.
I heard one young man say, “My flight is going to be terrible now.”  I felt for the mother and hoped that she didn’t hear the comment, though I thought I saw her clench her jaw. I empathised with the young man just a teeny bit. A constantly screaming baby is hard to be near but so is a drunken young man, which he had the potential to be.
Since immigrating to New Zealand from England, I have flown long-haul flights with all ages and stages of babies, toddlers, children and teenagers. The journey is two twelve-hour flights with a variety of hours in transit in between. As my youngest is now a teenager, most of the travelling with children was before those marvellous individual screens for in-flight entertainment.
Individual screens or not, the journey can be hard. The prospect of it can be overwhelming. The journey is worth it though, and the more you are prepared the easier it is. Here are a few tips for travelling with children that worked for me, particularly on long journeys.

19 Sept 2013

Brain Shock or Culture Shock?

The first newsletter is out! Read about what your brain has to go through when it is processing all the changes of a new environment. See 100 images of migration. Click on the link below.
Newsletter 1 Sept 2013